Monday, May 29, 2006


Kid Being Noisy During Whore Island On Fox? SEDATE HIM!!!

I have to wonder sometimes just what society is coming to when such a high percentage of children are labeled as ADD and ADHD and then put on drugs and/or into counseling. I myself was labeled hyperactive, which I thought was bad at the time, but there is no doubt in my mind that some dipshit in a suit with a psychology degree would have diagnosed me ADD and had me popping Ritalin like candy. What is it with psychiatrists and psychologists that they have a need to label as many people as they can with emotional and mental disorders? As though that question even needs to be asked, it’s all about money and name recognition, if you would believe the conspiracy theorists.

While I have no doubt there is a measure of truth to that theory, I believe that in the long run it boils down to lazy behavior. If children came with an instruction manual from God, it would say they are energetic, have a short attention span, are loud and boisterous, and require continual supervision until a specific age. Parents no longer feel it should be their responsibility to take care of their children. “Oh, my kid doesn’t sit down and watch tv, he runs around and acts silly all the time, doctor, we need help.” Why not tell the fucking truth? “Doctor, I’m a lazy piece of shit parent, my kid is normal but I want to drug him up so that I don’t have to take care of him or supervise him so he learns good behaviors, we need help.” That’s the story here, it’s not about kids with problems, it’s about PARENTS with problems.

The whole idea of using drugs to sedate children is disgusting, because when you do that, you develop a need in children for chemically related outside sources of help to cope with the world. What does this say? It should be obvious, if it’s okay for a child to be taking drugs at age 4 and up, when they reach the teenage years they believe it is totally acceptable to go on their own and start in with alcohol, cigarettes, weed, or worse. Anyone who doesn’t believe that using Ritalin and other drugs of that type act as a gateway to elicit drug use later on is an ignorant fool.

It would be wonderful if parents, teachers, administrators, and doctors of all types would quit trying to label all children as abnormal because they don’t meet over restrictive guidelines, guidelines imposed by a society that seems to try to weed out creativity and differences in children that make them unique and wonderful.


Current Lyrical Ramblings

In your house I long to be
Room by room patiently
I'll wait for you there
Like a stone I'll wait for you there

Like A Stone - Audioslave

1 comment:

Old Grey Frog said...

I'll agree with your premise as far as it goes. But...
There really is something that is called Attention Deficit Disorder. Too many who take meds for it don't have it. I'm with you that too many times people use this disorder as an excuse to drug children who they just don't want to take the time to discipline or take the time to watch. But... You really need to pay attention to my gentle warning because this disorder runs in the family and I don't want it startle you if it happens to bite you in the butt. My Mom? My brother? My Mother-in-Law? (Shiny object!) OMG! My Father-in-Law. HTP's OK...He's an engineer. ME??!! Mink? Mink's sister? You know that there was a time that they didn't test you for it...and women still don't get tested for it unless you're hyperactive and ladies aren't hyperactive. Ladies are taught never to be hyperactive....we don't sweat either, we glow. I put Mink's brother on meds after a heart-stopping, nightmare night when I actually thought he was gone...dead. I couldn't wake him up. I could control his attention problems during the day but at night, that night, he slipped into a near coma-like condition. I came close to calling 911 that night. With women? Depression? Migraines? We're taught from birth to behave like little ladies. It's OK to act out if you're a little boy but girls are supposed to be sugar and spice and everything nice. If you can't be that well...you start to feel like you've failed but there's always the pressure to try. Do you know how hard it is for someone with ADD to reign in their brain that is constantly sparking erratically so that they can actually fall asleep at night? I think you might. Try a cup of coffee and bio-feedback exercises. Both help. Imagine...you have to take a stimulant so you can concentrate enough to focus enough so you can finally go to sleep and rest. Funny...coffee has always helped me sleep at night. I remember that someone gave me a sleeping pill after Mink was born. I think I finally got some sleep after the effects of the pill wore off.

Now...tell me what you need or want to see in a care package. Any books? More animal crackers? One of those portable fans on a keychain? Toys? Anyone in your unit need anything I can send. Lotions, potions? Just let me know.